Having Your First Threesome? Here’s What You Need to Know

A threesome is every guy’s dream, but women are equally interested. There’s no better way to spice things up in the relationship, and bedroom, than engaging in a hot threesome. If you’ve never had this type of sexual endeavor before, this post will give you a few important pointers.

Communication is crucial

Before you even invite a third person to your bedroom, it’s crucial to communicate with your current significant other to make sure you are on the same page. Your significant other wouldn’t want to feel like you arranged everything without their knowledge. Even if they’re into a threesome, the idea of someone doing something behind your back is never okay. So, have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about a threesome and discuss the dynamics with each other and the third person. You should also discuss what kind of person you want in bed with you two, their physical attributes, and sexual preferences, likes, and dislikes. Once you sort all these details, you’re ready to look for that third person in your bedroom.

Go on a date first

When it comes to a threesome, the last thing you should do is simply jump into the bed with the third person. It’s always easier if you start things off with a casual date where you three can spend quality time together. While the idea of date may seem odd, it will help everyone feel more relaxed. That’s also the perfect opportunity for you two to check their characteristics, attributes, and habits. You want a threesome to be perfect, but for that to happen you need that perfect person as well. In this case, the perfect person is the one who meets your expectations and preferences. Be transparent about your expectations from a threesome to make sure the third person is on the same page with you two.

Work on synchronization

It’s important for two people to sync up, we already know that. A threesome is not the exception, everyone should be on the same page. Prepare yourself for having some issues in this aspect here and there. These issues are common at first, but as you gain more experience with threesomes they will go away. Don’t give up if these problems occur, give yourself and the other two partners a few tries to overcome them. Bear in mind it will take some time to sync together, but you can always communicate to reset the dynamics. Of course, if things aren’t working out anyway, you may want to find a different third person.

Everyone should get attention

The most common mistake people make in threesomes is that they leave someone out. Sometimes the whole focus is on one person only. Sometimes the focus is on two people and one partner is left out. Make sure nobody is neglected during your threesome. Everyone should get attention.

Keep in mind sometimes it’s okay to be neglected, but it shouldn’t happen every time. You may want to arrange this detail with a third person. For instance, the arrangement should be that every time a different person gets the most attention. Be creative here.

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